奖励的目的？？？？

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<font size="5"><font color="dimgray">&nbsp; &nbsp; 奖励时一定要让孩子知道为什么得到奖励，奖励不是目的，只是一种手段。因此，在奖励的同时要使孩子明确为什么要奖励他，使奖励的指向性更强。也就是说要让孩子充分认识到自己进步的具体表现是什么，进步的原因是什么，今后如何更好地努力，这样才能真正起到激励的作用。要把物质奖励变成精神力量，推动孩子更快进步。？？？？？</font></font></td></tr></tbody></table>


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<div class="quote"><blockquote><font size="2"><font color="#999999">风是我的歌 发表于 2012-2-25 10:07</font> <img id="aimg_HBI3Z" onclick="zoom(this, this.src, 0, 0, 0)" class="zoom" file="static/image/common/back.gif" onmouseover="img_onmouseoverfunc(this)" lazyloadthumb="1" border="0" alt=""></font><br>
有理</blockquote></div><br>
:handshake:call:&nbsp;&nbsp;家教是需要人人参与！！父母相互学习</td></tr></tbody></table>


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:victory::victory::victory::victory:支持</td></tr></tbody></table>


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:victory::victory:学习了</td></tr></tbody></table>


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