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发表于 2019-4-7 16:07:58 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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<font style="color:rgb(255, 0, 0)"><font style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 0)"><font style="font-size:24px">逞强的忙不能帮</font></font></font><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">帮忙,是以己之力,助人之难,尽力为之,而并非逞强。逞强帮忙让你从帮忙者变被帮忙者,莫名为自己生活加重经济和感情负担。</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">
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</font></div><div align="center"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">介绍朋友到自己单位上班</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"></font></div><font style="font-size:18px">生活里的亲密关系到了工作场合只能是无形阻碍,无休止担心和责任从你们成为同事开始。引荐他去其他单位,既帮忙牵线,又不用为今后他的发展埋单。</font><font style="font-size:18px">
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</font><font style="font-size:18px"><div align="center">需要委托第四人的帮忙</div><div align="left">如果某人需要帮忙,是你和你比较亲密的亲友无法做到的,需要通过更复杂的关系才达成,3段人情换1段人情不划算,而且可能牵扯的麻烦让你剪不断,理还乱。当然,生命攸关的大事除外。</div><div align="left">
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</div></font><div align="center"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">帮助别人做重大决定</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"></font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">没人是神算,所以不轻易为别人选择不可逆转的大事,即使你有百分百把握,也不能忽视价值观差异可能带来的分歧。像出国、结婚、行业选择、买房、家庭纠纷这些事,只需给建议,具体选择还是当事人定夺。否则,到时后悔,千古罪人的枷锁让你憋屈死。</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">
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</font></div><div align="center"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">太过于撮合朋友间的爱情</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">说劝和不劝分,不过太过分撮合,于己于人不见得是好事。爱情是最深奥学科之一,大道理可以劝,小细节让小两口自己磨合。过于干涉朋友间的爱情,最徒劳无功。相亲也一样,师父领进门,修行靠个人。</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">
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</font></div><div align="center"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">复帮助同一人太多次</font></div><br>
<div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">生活中都有不那么争气的朋友,他们处境艰难让人恻隐,却又不肯上进让人忧心。于他们而言,过于频繁的帮衬适得其反,只会加重依赖心理,比起物质帮助,他们更需要精神。</font></div><div align="left"><font style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">
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